• jumjummy@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      Yes, at this point it’s rude people that don’t tip.

      It’s like people moving next to an airport, then complaining about planes. If you don’t want to tip, don’t go to a full service restaurant.

      That being said, every single order at the counter POS terminal that asks for tips can fuck right off.

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        16 hours ago

        It’s like people moving next to an airport, then complaining about planes.

        I believe this analogy works in the opposite way?

        Moving next to an airport is like starting a job at a restaurant that doesn’t pay minimum (or living) wage.

        In either case, you know ahead of time that it’ll be annoying to live/work in those situations because planes are loud and not all people tip to make up the poor wage level.

        And then to solve these problems, instead of requiring that planes be quieter or that people always tip, perhaps re-zone the areas surrounding the airport so people can’t move there, and sign into law minimum wage that scales with cost of living so people don’t have to need tips.

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          The tipping system is fucked, but that doesn’t at all change the fact that it’s baked into the system. EVERYONE (in that moment) expects you to to tip; so if you don’t, you’re effectively stealing from the server.

          If you don’t want to tip, your only options are to either not eat out at restaurants, or to find restaurants that have “Hospitality Included” service (a trend which I’m thankful to see growing – albeit slowly).

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            17 hours ago

            If you don’t want to tip, your only options are to either not eat out at restaurants

            I would gladly take this option, but sometimes other people want to for some reason. I would rather just go for drinks at a pub.

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            20 hours ago

            What if everyone didn’t expect you to tip? You vehemently defending the tipping system is part of why EVERYONE expects you to tip.

            That kind of aggressive apatheism is what makes the system continue.

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              13 hours ago

              Okay, then at the very least when you walk in you should declare your intention to not tip. Still shitty towards the server that gets stuck with you, but now it causes conflict amongst the staff and brings the issue to a head.

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          1 day ago

          The tipping system sucks, but short of passing some laws mandating a livable wage WITHOUT tips, going out now and not tipping for a full service dining experience is absolutely a bad move.

          Basically you’re advocating for customers to screw over the wait staff since, as you clearly point out, the owners aren’t on the hook for the tip income.

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            17 hours ago

            They are advocating for not supporting a broken system so it can be replaced with a better one.

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            20 hours ago

            How long do you think that wait staff will stay in the restaurants where their wage consists of tipping which doesn’t exist?

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        21 hours ago

        It’s rude that the insane hyper capitalist dictatorship forces this, but you attack your own class, exactly like the oligarchs want. They want free mercenaries to sow hate and dispute in their own class so they can win the class war. In the end when all humans die it will be because nobody attacked the oligarchy while they set up the feral slaying machine corps that will salienate the planet.