A lot of things made more sense with my family when I recognized that my family isn’t neurotypical.

That said, a lot of parents feel really judged when they give their children a trait that isn’t wholely positive.

Basically self-diagnosed at 35 due to this. Therapist backed it up and agreed, but there isn’t really anything anyone is going to do with a 35 year old other than maybe give you some anti-anxiety medicine occasionally after hassling you about it.