• M500@lemmy.ml
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    7 months ago

    My wife finally are in a point where we can afford to have children, but we are kinda getting a bit old to have children. So we are also choosing the dual income no children life style,

    But a big part of that is our age and how long it took to get to a comfortable place financially.

    Now we want to focus on saving for a house and retirement.

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        7 months ago

        Definitely not if they’re young / stupid enough to take it personally!

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          7 months ago

          There will never be a time in which your children are cool with you telling them that you wished they’d never been born

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            7 months ago

            I kind of disagree, I would completely understand if my parents said that. Maybe it’s because the math is so clear to me.

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              7 months ago

              Same. I was born five months after they were married. I know I was an accident and that I financially taxed them as a baby. Saying “I regret having you” doesn’t have to mean they regret having you so much as when or how they did. I bet my folks would have liked to wait, lol

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    7 months ago

    As the 21st century began, human evolution was at a turning point.

    Natural selection, the process by which the strongest, the smartest

    the fastest reproduced in greater numbers than the rest,

    a process which had once favoured the noblest traits of man,

    now began to favour different traits.

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      7 months ago

      Natural selection, the process by which the strongest, the smartest

      the fastest reproduced in greater numbers than the rest,

      That is a misunderstanding of natural selection. Natural selection means the most efficient ways to live in your ecological niche have been selected for.

      Sloths are not counter to natural selection. They’re not fast or smart or strong. What they are is well-adapted to live in their environment.