As someone else said, breeding. I would not risk getting pregnant with anyone I wasn’t in a stable relationship with.
To be absolutely honest, I guess it’s an unpopular take but in a perfect world I would not have minded a grab bag kid, not knowing who the dad was wouldn’t have bothered me, I know who the mom is, and I have and like having kids, but we don’t live in that world.
I think other than that I have nothing I haven’t done with casual partners, that I have done with my two long term guys. And nothing that I’ve done with casual guys, that I wouldn’t do with the long term guys.
Just mean if I didn’t know who fathered my kids, I personally wouldn’t have cared. I didn’t want kids as a secondary result of a romantic relationship, never really wanted to give some guy a kid, just wanted to raise some.
We don’t live in a world where that works though, kids like to know who their parents are, both of them. And as it turns out I don’t mind keeping a man around, either.
As someone else said, breeding. I would not risk getting pregnant with anyone I wasn’t in a stable relationship with.
To be absolutely honest, I guess it’s an unpopular take but in a perfect world I would not have minded a grab bag kid, not knowing who the dad was wouldn’t have bothered me, I know who the mom is, and I have and like having kids, but we don’t live in that world.
I think other than that I have nothing I haven’t done with casual partners, that I have done with my two long term guys. And nothing that I’ve done with casual guys, that I wouldn’t do with the long term guys.
What’s a “grab bag kid”? Like a kid who was born to a mother who used a sperm donation?
Just mean if I didn’t know who fathered my kids, I personally wouldn’t have cared. I didn’t want kids as a secondary result of a romantic relationship, never really wanted to give some guy a kid, just wanted to raise some.
We don’t live in a world where that works though, kids like to know who their parents are, both of them. And as it turns out I don’t mind keeping a man around, either.