• Laser@feddit.org
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    8 days ago

    It’s stupid on so many levels.

    First off, it implies there is some sort or series of social masculine trait(s) that are in some way desirable. It gets even more stupid when this turns into expectations, like “you’re a man, you should X”.

    It’s kind of sad but not unsurprising that there’s an industry trying to capitalize on the resulting insecurities.

    I think it was a positive aspect of the MGTOW idea to reject these expectations and do your own thing.

        • SkyezOpen@lemmy.world
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          8 days ago

          Well like the other commenter said, it was ostensibly about guys just focusing on themselves and breaking out of the toxic trait of defining yourself by whoever is on your arm. That in itself is fine, and hell, even helpful. The issue is that it naturally attracted incels trying to be the aloof sigma that’s too cool to bother with silly women.