Was just casually checking out some videos from this voice coach lady… when suddenly I find out she’s trans too! Kinda makes me feel inspired, with progress like that.

  • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 years ago

    Wait, you were looking for voice coaching from someone you thought was a cis woman?

    Is that a thing?

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      Yes? Lol, I’m a little perplexed that you’re perplexed by that?

      But I guess it’s a little niche. And not specifically focused for transition. I’m not surprised at all that she’s a musician because my own vocal training was also in the context of music. But I used that training extensively outside of my singing (and still do).

      It’s funny because my vocal coach used to absolutely harangue me about deepening my voice. But as a female presenting person in the business world (in the 90s), that was necessary for survival. And I was deeply uncomfortable with my feminine sounding voice when I was younger. I’ve grown to accept it more now, although I still lower and project my voice at work or in other situations where I need to make myself be taken seriously.

      That vocal training also allowed me to selectively “turn off” my native Appalachian accent - another thing that gets you nowhere in a lot of professional settings. But I slip back into it when I’m really tired or when I’m talking to my dad lol

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        2 years ago

        my own vocal training was also in the context of music

        Is this where I admit that I forgot that is a thing? :)

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      2 years ago

      Most Speech Pathologists in my country are cishet women.

      To my WA Au friends the Curtin Adult Speech Centre is / was free. I’m sure there are other great places but I haven’t looked into it.