Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days ago

My S/O thinks he’s “too cool” to like what I like

Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days ago

Don’t get me wrong, he (17M) doesn’t have to enjoy everything I (18F) like, but he always talks about how much he hates my stuff.

I don’t like his stuff all the time, I like reading and he doesn’t for example. However, he doesn’t like a lot of things, and a post reminded me of this. He has to complain about how he doesn’t like it and how he doesn’t wanna watch stuff with me and how he doesn’t like this stuff and how he’s 17, so he’s so mature and can’t watch my “kid stuff”.

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Someone who treats you and your likes as insignificant is not a significant other. Stop wasting your time with them and find someone that appreciates you for you.
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  Thanks so much :D He’s doing better about my interests but still
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  maybe he is insecure about being “cool”, tysmmm

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