• Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      Ugh…I don’t. I tried to see if she made any videos I hadn’t seen before, found her twitter, and discovered she’s a huge racist and trump thumper.

      Now I feel icky knowing I jerked off to a woman who is so full of vile and hate.

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        5 months ago

        At least you don’t have to feel icky that you’re not the type of person who likes that they jerked off to someone like that. Either because they support her or because they like dehumanizing/humiliating women aspect. That’s also icky. (Latter because it isn’t consensual and so less a kink & just bad)

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          …ok? Not entirely sure what you’re getting at, but I think the jist is that a lesser person would continue to masturbate, and somehow this humiliates a porn star that shot a porn years ago. And that would be bad…

          I’m just unclear why she would be humiliated if people jerked off to her on a computer screen as part of a job she was paid for and performed consentually for.

          Then again, I still say PeeWee Herman did nothing wrong in that theater. Once I was old enough to learn the real details, he’s still an adult with needs. He took care of those needs in a pre-internet world the best and most responsible and safe way he could.

          …I know it’s technically unrelated. It just seems very similar to that case, and 6 year old me still isn’t over it.

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            5 months ago

            She wouldn’t actually be humiliated. But some get off on the idea that they are “dominating” a woman, putting them in her place, and it is especially rewarding if they ‘hate her guts and get off on her anyway’ and ‘totally use her’ for the object that they see her as. Even to the point where finding out after the fact may make them excited instead of turned off. Some men will be attracted to women because they hate them

            Basically my point originally was just a jokey comfort. But I’m a couple hours into enjoying my Friday now and am not sure if I explained myself so badly or you’re that good you don’t even know how … icky people can be and get off on it.

            Sorry if that was way too serious, too confusing, or if I totally missed your point or tone etc.

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              …what a terrible day to be literate. I’m not blaming you for explaining the concept, but also…maybe thats enough internet for today.