• Deestan@lemmy.worldOP
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      5 months ago

      I think a lot of people can chill naturally instead or chilling briefly and through immense focus. Must be nice.

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      5 months ago

      Sleep. Pretty much the only time for me.

      I lay down, put on a narration, and at some point my memory cuts out and it’s the next day. Nothing happens so far as I recall between losing consciousness and waking up.

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      5 months ago

      I think so? I especially wish I could do it at night, it’s so hard to fall asleep when your brain refuses to turn off. I am so envious of people who can just shut their eyes and have no thoughts and fall asleep in a couple of minutes.

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        5 months ago

        I’ve noticed that when I can fall asleep, the mind keeps working on its’ own but I slowly stop paying attention to it, like it’s talking in the background and I’m zoning out. I start by gently focusing on my exhales.

        Then suddenly the mind will take me on a trip, without me even realizing it. I’m asleep.

        Some nights, I do “count sheep”, but with lists, like:
        “Five world capitals that start with the letter B”, or
        “Twenty movies with Robert De Niro”

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          5 months ago

          Yeah, that’s pretty much my experience, except it only gets harder to actually drift off the older I get.

          Some nights, I do “count sheep”, but with lists…

          I’ve tried lots of “counting sheep” variations, but most are too boring for my ADHD brain to be able to maintain for longer than a minute. It’s really hard to find something I’m interested in enough to be able to focus on, but not so much that thinking about it actually keeps me awake.

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            5 months ago

            I’m one of those types who can create pretty vivid internal images, especially when I concentrate.

            If you can do the same thing, try combining the list making with a visual aspect. I literally just count numbers in my head, but at the same time I imagine what each number would look like in a fancy typeface, but as if it were a 3D object floating in blank ”mind space.”

            It takes up almost all of the capacity for my mind to wander, and unless I’m having a particularly difficult time I can usually use this to fall asleep within a half an hour or so.

            Doesn’t help with staying asleep, though.