Thanks for writing and sharing this. This is a valuable perspective and brings up some excellent points around accessibility and how some environments and actions can be really draining and how other people are often unaware of how draining it can be due to their privilege on some axis. As an aside, I had never bothered to look into where the language around spoons came from, thank you for sharing the link! That’s super cool that it came from a disability writer, I’ll have to check out the essay it comes from.