I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.
Personally I’m into porn involved some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.
I mean hey, I thought that might be the case for me, but uh… one thing led to another and it turns out sucking a cock in real life is incredibly hot. YMMV though 😅
Same with me. It was a big secret fantasy till I spilled the beans to my wife who encouraged me to try it
I’m glad it worked out for you!!! My partner is also encouraging. Good reminder to be incredibly thankful we have them in our lives ❤️