What specific things can trigger you to feel submissive towards your partner during sex?
Being corrected physically, moved into place.
“Good Girl” or “No, ask for it”
I guess it’s usually that moment when I know I am not in control?
@RBWellsV23 that simple and natural dominance, when he knows he can instruct or patronise you in ways you’d never otherwise allow, but in these circumstances just make you crave him?
Sex is submission for me. They are the same act. If I am being penetrated, in that moment, I belong to the person using me. My brain shuts off. Things like having my body gripped and moved around help, being spanked or came on or covered with graffiti go with that, but when I am being fucked, I am an object that belongs to all cocks.
I can’t even pretend to be dominant. I don’t give a shit about my own orgasm. Desire is to be underneath someone who is using me to make their body feel good.