• sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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    18 hours ago

    Exactly, they’re coworkers where OP isn’t certain if they were flirting or just being friendly, and other coworkers confirm she’s flirting. To me that means:

    • they don’t have a good enough relationship to tell the difference, so probably not “friends”
    • other coworkers don’t seem to experience the same thing
    • claims to not have other friends (surely she’d mention a BF, no?)

    So to me, that sounds very much like she’s flirting, so it’s totally understandable for OP to consider it a date.

    • JackbyDev@programming.dev
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      17 hours ago

      Facts:

      1. Anon intended for this to be a date.
      2. Anon never said this was a date.
      3. Anon never asked if she was single.