Was listening to radio the other day. Radio folks talk about the most random stuff to fill the airtime. This time they were discussing a memory from their childhood. Specifically, when, as a child, they returned to home from their school, who was the first person that would look for they asked. Someone called in and said they wanted to see their mother the most and now that they have children, the children do the same thing.
I was thinking about myself and I have no idea what I did in this situation as a child. I know both my parents worked, so maybe they weren’t there when I returned. I had some nannies take care of me but I don’t recall much about them other than their names or faces. Or maybe my parents were done with work by then. Maybe I didn’t look for anyone and wanted to do something else, but I have no concrete recollection of that either.
I wonder if this is normal.
I’ve heard trauma, depression, stuff like that, can impact this. Though some of it may be how a person’s brain is wired too. I remember very little from my childhood, but there’s at least one person I know who can recall really specific stuff from decades ago in their life, in step by step detail. Which I don’t think I could ever do; my memory always seems to have been more impressionistic.