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Cake day: July 4th, 2023

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  • My partner and I will routinely “ruin the moment” with stupid jokes and off topic thoughts. It hasn’t ruined our relationship yet.

    You could theoretically just excersise more conscious control over what you say, but that often leads to exhaustion/burnout. It’s so much better to find someone who understands you, and who you can relax and be yourself around.









  • I don’t think I ever did dating. I found a human I liked, claimed them, and got married.

    My partner is the best friend I’ll ever have, and someone I want to hang out with every day. I’m lucky that they feel the same way about me.

    Go out, enjoy yourself, hang out with friends if you want, and you might end up keeping one. Your partner should be someone you can be around every day, through their best and their worst. Where better to start then as friends?