Depends on what your oath is. It’s not just swearing to good but the oaths are swearing to a concept.

He’s selfish, yes. But a lot of that is because of his overconfidence which is just him masking his insecurities. Imo, he’d be a lot better if he was a girl because of a lot of gendered baggage to how his emotions get read.

He was groomed. So that’s something.

Google your city + “mutual aid”. You’ll find people in your area who at the very least care. Then you’ll find more things based on the people you meet there.