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LPT I avoid deadnaming myself by using my birth name but changing the spelling lol.
But yes even after a few years I still misgender myself sometimes. It happens unfortunately 😕
LPT I avoid deadnaming myself by using my birth name but changing the spelling lol.
But yes even after a few years I still misgender myself sometimes. It happens unfortunately 😕
Honestly without anyone citing the actual post in question it’s literally impossible for any of us to make up our own minds on the content. All we have is one admin’s word vs another. I haven’t personally seen anything even approaching CSAM-adjacent anywhere on lemmynsfw, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. At the same time it does kinda seem like the blahaj admins wanted to defederate anyway and finally found a convenient scapegoat – it seems odd that one would completely defederate an entire instance over a single post. So I really have no idea what to think.
According to the comments on lemmynsfw it was adorableporn
Yo I’m about a week into hrt and this is literally me rn. At this point idk if I’ll ever have the confidence to come out publicly.