Also, what are your favorite comebacks to bullies?
I need to stop trying to change unchangeable people. I’ve been through so many bad faith people who dehumanize at every turn whenever they feel they won’t get consequences. I need to make there be consequences for dehumanization.
Someone said to me “What if there’s a predatory creep that you don’t know how to socially shut down, and they feel emboldened because you don’t roast them?” I said that’s happened. They said i need to practice in lower risk scenarios. Maybe I get roasted for calling someone an asshole. One day that can turn into me and the dehumanizer going 50/50, me and them both getting half the roast. But to even get there I have to start by being roasted by bullies.
I won’t get anywhere if I don’t start clapping back and getting roasted many times by many assholes.
Lol I used to know people who actually act like the characters and so the chaos of the show stung for a while. But in the past year I finally learned to love it because my brain can register it’s just a show.
That sounds the problem is the people in your life and not your lack of roasting skills.
Well I grew up in that kind of enviroment, but now that I’m out of it im encountering other immature covert abusers. Who might not straight up have a personality disorders and who are simply immature downpunchers. They’ll wait until I’m alone with them to strike. Now i have these windows of being bullied where I came start defending myself and not face mortal fear. Idk where to start.