• Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee
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    10 days ago

    I am actually going to be reentering the dating game after a little over 10 years. I sometimes wonder 'am i still attractive ’ but then I remember this…

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      10 days ago

      I’m discovering that it isn’t really “am I attractive?” It’s " I feel attractive."

      Like I’m down 100lbs, been pumping my protein and weights, and I got muscle definition where I’ve never noticed muscle definition before.

      Clothes that fit, glasses I feel comfortable in. I don’t really want to “date” because I’m so much happier with impressing myself than trying to impress someone else.