• Woozythebear@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      Crazy, I’ve been to a couple hundred metal shows and never heard anyone say the N word. No one’s ever threatened to kill me or my family. Never heard anyone going around the crowed telling women to get the fuck back in the kitchen… like the fuck you mean?

      • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
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        7 months ago

        I’m jealous of you, but maybe a lot of it comes from me being older, and some of those toxic elders either got reformed, or left the scene entirely.

      • 0xD@infosec.pub
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        7 months ago

        In my experience, the gatekeeping and unhealthy drinking habits are the most toxic aspects of it.