So, I understand that some people can have the same name, but this isn’t the case with my husband. My husband’s name is so unusually spelled that he was the only person, besides his biological father, who had that first and last name combination on a birth certificate. This is a fact that he shared with me when we first started dating. He seemed pretty proud of that, and I always thought it was funny. After I married him, and changed my last name to his, I became the only woman in America that had my first and last name on record. It’s just that odd of a last name, so please trust me on this one when I say that someone is using his name.

The profile on instagram, that I just discovered, displays a profile picture of an older man, standing, or sitting, beside a woman of about the same age. I wanted to report it to instagram, but there wasn’t an option to report the possibility of a spouse’s stolen identity. It is definitely not my husband’s account. The friends listed in the pages he follows, are not any names that I recognize from his group of friends. He would never lose contact with some of his closest friends.

I am worried.

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      No. I’m not. The PayPal Fundraiser was for my cat who is still receiving antibiotics for his infection, and will need to have his teeth extracted in less than two months, after the antibiotics are done. Why would I need money to find my husband? He, and his friends in real life, loved using Reddit, and Lemmy. I would be grateful if people on here would take a look at his photo, and mention if they have seen him. Since you seem to like digging through my posts, and keep stalking my account, I figured you might have already seen his photo.

      Also, I blocked you in past posts for some abusive comments. I would appreciate it if you didn’t stalk my account across MULTIPLE areas of Lemmy. It’s weird, not to mention illegal.

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        Responding to your posts on Lemmy is not illegal. You have a penchant for non-facts, it seems.

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          Stalking my account is, in fact, a crime. It goes along with cyber bullying. People have been arrested for it, and even sued for doing so.

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            Replying to you on a social network does not equal cyber bullying no matter how hard you try to paint yourself a victim.

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              If you’re stalking my account in order to find me, so you can make those comments, then you are committing a crime. It’s not about victim here, it’s about you breaking the law.

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                You’re a drama queen. You’re not important enough to anyone here for them to stalk you. Why don’t you go back to the fantasy story you posted so we can figure out the one-armed man that has stolen your missing husband’s once-in-a-lifetime last name and who’s most nefarious activity so far is posting to instagram?

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            Lady you keep going into the same bar and now you’re threatening the other patrons because they recognize you as a regular.

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        Those are some pretty serious accusations you are throwing my direction with absolutely no proof.

        Have you ever watched Baby Raindeer?

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        If you actually blocked their account you wouldn’t see their reply at all. It’d be like it didn’t happen. That implies you either didn’t block the account, or you have multiple sock puppet accounts that don’t sync your ban list. And if you have multiple accounts, how is the person you block on one account supposed to know you blocked them?