• Fizz@lemmy.nz
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    Zoomers don’t realize we grew up when bullying was acceptable.

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      It still is acceptable. It’s just that today they call it management and human resources.

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      Their bullying is way more intrusive and emotionally damaging. We never SWATted each other or to use an app to anonymously and constantly message each other to kill yourself

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        It’s odd, they do seem generally more inclusive and less cliquey, but humans are humans, and that means bullying still happens. The really intense stuff has been empowered by internet anonymity (or short of that, a lack of physical presence and the accompanying repercussions), perfect for your prototypical emotionally damaged coward of a bully.

        For those who don’t go nuclear, it seems like the main thing is exclusion, but it can be hard to decide when that moves from them simply associating with the people they want, to passive aggressive bullying. I’m sure the number of people cruelly left off the “new” group text for some bullshit reason is pretty large though.

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          From what I can tell talking to teachers, the public bullying among Gen Z has ebbed (excluding anything gang-related) but the private stuff is way worse. My guess is it’s related, given how performative social media is and how much of an influence it has on Gen Z. Not saying Millenials are immune, but we came up in a society that actively cautioned against putting too much of yourself online whereas Gen Z grew up in a post-Facebook society that encouraged it.

          Also, behaviors generally across the board are worse post-pandemic. It’s apparently like no one knows how to be nice to each other anymore.

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        6 months ago

        I’d rather get anonymously told to kill myself than bashed on the way home from school every day.

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    Trying to tape a song off the radio without getting too much of the DJ’s voice…

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        I still remember when my brother called our radio station to see if they had the new Megadeth album that hadn’t been released yet. On our tape, we got the DJ saying “And here’s some new Megadeth for you off their new album Cryptic Writings. We’re not even supposed to be playing this yet!”

        In my mind, that’s just part of the song now.

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        or, a live recording and then even the studio recorded version sounds off. It has to be that specific live performance

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          That still happens to me all the time, as a big fan of jam bands like Phish and the 'Dead there are quite a few songs where a specific concert rendition is ‘the correct one’ and the album version sounds wrong.

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      Fast walking home from school to catch Total Request Live on MTv at 3:30, hoping your favorite song didn’t drop in the ranking today because that means it will play earlier and you will not get to hear it today (and that song is Objects in the Rear View Mirror by Meatloaf).

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    Sears Catalogs? What sort of sick shit is this?

    National Geographics is what you were supposed to jerk off to. All those naked ladies in tropical countries…

    And it was okay, because it was educational!

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      and usually finished the job before the download was complete. “- ow I can see the neck that enough for me”

      God damn 56kbps dial up modem

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        So you remember the internet at this speed Moss? Up all night and you’d see three women.

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          The pain was that you had no idea what the image really contained until it was downloading. Sure, thumbnails existed, but they were like 20x20. So you didn’t know if you were getting someone naked, or someone wearing a beige body suit or some other nonsense.

          About halfway through you could usually make a judgement call on whether you wanted to finish the download or try a different picture.

          It was a gigantic time sink.

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        I started with a 1200, quickly updated to 2400 bps modem. 56k was an absurd fantasy at the time. I didn’t download anything much though (obviously).

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    I’m not that old. I’m just old enough to send song trough bluetooth from friend to friend and it took ages. also good luck trying to watch porn since only device capable of that is the family computer

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        Haha, my dad used the computer for porn one time. He was completely tech illiterate and didn’t know it kept a record. Silly stuff like “titfucking.com” and “bigboobybikerchicks.com”. He just .com’d whatever crossed his mind.

        He told my mom he only got on there to play space cadet pinball. He was seriously gonna let me and my brother take the fall. I don’t blame him though. My mom can be batshit crazy and porn to her would be no different than cheating.

        My brother and I would have been nagged at and grounded. He had to go stay at my grandma’s for a month. Haha

        God I was so mad that he tried to blame us. Like, yeah, I was looking at porn. I covered my damn tracks and don’t give a shit about big booby biker chicks.

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          The stigma against watching porn while married among older generations is an interesting one. I’m not gonna say it was wrong, but I find it hard to make myself care. If my fiance finds something nice, I’d just prefer that he share it with me lol