• Localhorst86@feddit.org
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    Now, it is considered extremely respectful for anyone who is not black to not use that word to refer to black people without permission

    looks like you’re missing a negation here. It’s the opposite of “extremely respectful” ;)

    EDIT: disregard

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      1 month ago

      Haha I could’ve structured that better - in this case I’ve said “not use that word to describe black people”, should work no? Or maybe I’m missing something??

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        It’s “mathematically” correct but the extra “not” gets easily lost and is in a weird place. Plus it’s not specifically respectful to avoid the use of the word but rather it’s just common decency. In your sentence it puts more weight on the act of not saying it, as if using it is fairly normal and not using it takes some amount of effort.

        It is usually better to use phrases like “it is considered disrespectful” over ones like “it is not considered respectful” even though they technically mean the same thing. The first is postively a bad thing and the second is negatively a particularly good thing, if that makes sense. Nuance is tricky business.

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        1 month ago

        oh, i see. You’re right, I guess I misread.

        I think “it is considered extremely disrespectful for anyone who is not black to use that word […]” would have been clearer, or at least make it harder to miss the “not”.