Transition: 2001-2004. Fully stealth since 2002 (had sex reassignment surgery & changed all of my documents). My last transition procedure was voice feminization surgery.

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    19 days ago

    Thanks for the answer! Stealth indeed includes/means total integration into something, you’re right. And I’m happy that your transition has this great effect for you!

    Another question: Does your husband know? And if so, how did you and he “handle” this information? (Sorry if my wording may sound weird sometimes as English isn’t my mother tongue).

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      19 days ago

      He does. I told him out of respect, and because I believe a marriage should be based on trust and honesty. Though I don’t believe he was “owed” that info, I could’ve just told him I’m a woman who happens to be infertile, my birth certificate, ID, etc. confirm it, so it’s technically the truth. Either way, his reaction was just well, you have a vagina, you have boobs, your paperwork’s in order… if it looks like a duck, quaks like one, walks like one - it’s a duck. So he really didn’t care.