Transition: 2001-2004. Fully stealth since 2002 (had sex reassignment surgery & changed all of my documents). My last transition procedure was voice feminization surgery.

  • almizilero@lemmy.world
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    19 days ago

    That seems like a hard thing to do, cutting almost all ties. Im happy it worked out for you and you found the life you were longing for. But does the stealth include your husband? I guess not? So (since he’s your husband now) I assume it didn’t matter to him? How did he react initially?

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      19 days ago

      It doesn’t. I told him out of respect, and because I believe a marriage should be based on trust and honesty. Though I don’t believe he was “owed” that info, I could’ve just told him I’m a woman who happens to be infertile, my birth certificate, ID, etc. confirm it, so it’s technically the truth. Either way, his reaction was just well, you have a vagina, you have boobs, your paperwork’s in order… if it looks like a duck, quaks like one, walks like one - it’s a duck. So he really didn’t care.