It’s sucks to say it, but men boys like that that are not worth trying to save anymore. He’s feeding off of the filth coming from those names you mentioned because it nourishes who he really is inside, who he is becoming.

He surely had the capacity to be good, and maybe until recently he showed signs of leaning that way and was struggling, but he’s a lost cause now. You could argue that he’s a casualty of the systems around him, or society failed to shape him into a healthy person, or both are true. Alternatively he could be the way he is because that’s who he is and was always meant to become this, but you have to accept that he is (already or becoming) a part of the cancer that is a direct threat our species.

Ultimately you need to ask yourself if it’s your obligation, your duty, to fight this cancer, or if you should simply cut it out of your life and discard it. Our individual capacity to help others is finite, and should be treated as a precious resource to be used in the most effective way. People like him will never truly learn what empathy is or what it means to put the well-being of others before themselves, so it’s best to ostracize them out of existence. He is infected. Although he still stands in front of you and lives, the person he once was (or you thought he was) is dead. Sorry for your loss; our loss.

I had great success ripping from Spot with Tunefab. Haven’t used it in over a year (lazy) but it was worth paying for. It has a built in browser or w/e but it’s laggy AF. I would just sign in to a regular browser and make a giant playlist of everything I wanted to save and then log in through the program and do one drag & drop of the playlist to the download queue. IIRC you could download FLAC as well as any other lesser forma but don’t quote me on that.

Being with a woman that is turned on by mommy roleplay.

Worth the price because you know what you’re getting is good quality, vs rolling the dice on something from Amazon or elsewhere.

If you like to jerk off at the computer it’s annoying to use. It’s heavy (especially the standard size), so if you ever need your 2nd hand for something expect to have to rest it against the desk or yourself. Also if you plan on using it for more than 5 minutes while sitting expect to lose most of the lube into your pubes and down your balls, and you’ll have to add more lube (which can be done through the top at least).

If you don’t live alone and you really want to go at it then you need to consider that it’s not completely quiet. One of the ‘features’ is making it tight/suction-y by adjusting the end cap on the other end. Closing it completely is not great, for me at least, but I do enjoy it partially closed, which creates the issue of air running through the small gap and every pump make a FSSSH sound which isn’t stealthy at all and kind of annoying even if nobody is around to hear it. Taking the cap all the way off and it still feels good but your dick sloshing back and fourth still makes a sound when you’re really going at it so it’s still not entirely quiet.

As far as cleaning goes your should clean it right away, but I’ve balled it up into a towel and tucked it away and cleaned it 24 hrs later with no issue. I use some amount of soap when I do even though I don’t think it’s recommended. I’ve never bought their wash or whatever they try to sell you.

For lube I don’t recommend any jelly style lubes as they get gross rather quickly. Something like Astroglide works good enough but it ‘runs out’ quickly. The best I can recommend is KY Ultragel.

The best way to use a fleshlight IMO is laying down - hear me out. First of all, buy the smaller travel sized fleshlight, I think it’s called the Surge or something. You can do this with a regular sized one but it’s physical size can be a downside for this method. Start by taking the sleeve out of the tube, fold it into something like it’s taco filling (I use a cotton undershirt) so the entrance is recessed about 1 inch into the shirt (to catch and spilled lube while you’re getting in there). Drop some lube in and get going while fully laying down on it. The greatest benefit of doing it in this missionary position is your lube last 10x as long. I can fuck that thing for a good 30 min or more before needing to add more. The only problem is looking at porn while doing it. If you just use your phone or laptop anyways then you’re good to go. If you primarily use a desktop then you’ll need to get creative. I used to drop stuff into a Plex and then stream to my phone (not recommended). I later found an easier way to do it via your phone which is to just transfer a bulk of vids that I wanted to watch using the VLC app (go to Network, turn on Sharing via Wi-Fi, type the IP address into your PC browser, drag and drop videos over). This was sufficient for a while, but I’m a degen gooner so I upgraded to a portable display that I connect with a 10ft HDMI cable to my PC (bed is close by) and control with a wireless mouse (and keyboard on occasion).

No matter how you’re using it though, it does feel great to bust a nut in something with your dick fully enveloped over dirtying a towel or whatever you do normally. If you’re doing the laying down method I described be sure the end is on top of something to catch any cum you may blast out of it when finishing.