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Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to Ask@lemm.eeEnglish · 2 days ago

What's a red flag in someone?

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What's a red flag in someone?

Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to Ask@lemm.eeEnglish · 2 days ago
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  • 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦@ttrpg.network
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    1 day ago

    In dates or other social situations:

    • treating service staff badly
    • talking about themselves to exclusion of all other topics
    • ordering for you without your input
    • acting as if they’re doing you a favour by dating you.
    • quotes anything from incel, MGTOW, or other manosphere sources
      • especially Joe Rogan
    • freeze peach fanatic
    • uses words like “woke” or any of the other alt-right bugaboos without ironic intent
    • acts like the word “feminist” is a dirty word
    • uses racial slurs
    • “Asian women are my fetish” (yes, I’ve had people—plural—use that with me)
    • volunteers religious identity without it being the topic of discussion
    • toxic negativity
    • toxic positivity
    • doesn’t read
    • doesn’t listen to music
    • has no opinions that aren’t slogans

    … and a cast of thousands …

    Wow. I’ve built up quite the suit of armour over the years.

    • sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      23 hours ago

      What’s a freeze peach? An anime?

      • 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦@ttrpg.network
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        18 hours ago

        Already answered. See if you can’t find it.

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      1 day ago

      Freeze peach what now

      • 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦@ttrpg.network
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        1 day ago

        Say it out loud.

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          1 day ago

          🙄

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            24 hours ago

            Red flag spotted.

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              13 hours ago

              If thinking that writing it as “freeze peach” for no good reason is cringey, I’m self selecting out of your dating pool 😅

              • 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦@ttrpg.network
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                4 hours ago

                It serves the purpose of triggering the freeze peach fanatics who get this feeling I’m mocking them.

                As for the dating pool, you’d already selected yourself out with your jingoism.

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              23 hours ago

              La mao

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