I get it, ok? Gen Z’s reputation isn’t great. Many people see us as lazy, unmotivated, and broken.

Can you seriously blame anyone who is a millenial or younger? Be honest with yourself here. If you really have to compare the war times to say that these generations had it easy, your metrics are messed up to begin with. That is a terrible bar.

Many people are heavily thinking about using services like MAID (Canada) when they get old because they know that they’ll never be able to retire, even if they work 50+ hours every week.

An entire generation is being written off, despite the fact that some of them are barely even in high school. Who was supposed to teach these kids how to act, and what to know? Who was supposed to guide them? You don’t just get life skills from a box of cheerios.

I’m heavily disappointed with a certain group of Millenials for following the exact same things that they’ve complained about for multiple years. You can’t complain about being judged as an entire generation while also complaining about another entire generation without being a hypocrite. Millions of people are usually not a single monolith, sorry to tell you. You are not an exception. No one is.

I do feel lucky in the sense that Millenials dispelled the “American dream” way before I had a chance to hope for it, although I do feel unlucky in the sense that that hope was never there to begin with. It’s felt grim since elementary school, and it’s just gotten worse. “Look at all of these bad problems that we’ll leave you to solve, well after it’s financially or environmentally feasible!” Yet, supposedly young people are dramatic for complaining about it. Hell, a lot of us can’t even legally vote yet. Do we have to follow the footsteps of France?

People actively and happily ignore science everywhere. In fact, many older adults have recently tried to LOWER education funding, yet these same people will still choose to blame the kids when they don’t magically know things.

There has been a massive uptick in mental health issues in young people. Instead of wondering “What caused that?”, many people are very eager to just dismiss it all as kids being dramatic. A handful of kids, maybe, but THIS many? You’re kidding yourself. You should keep thinking about the “why”. Why are so many kids too depressed to function at a basic level?

Let’s see here:

I’ll probably never be able to retire.

I’ll probably never be able to own a home.

People are still actively ignore environmental change, yet they whine about the price of foods going up. (Look at how the farmers are faring this year ffs)

People actively fight medical science.

People actively fight to control the lives of complete and total strangers.

I’m done pretending it’s all ok. I’m done acting complacent for random people to feel better about doing nothing for decades. I’m done dealing with it. Aside from my loved ones and my hobbies, what is there to look forwards to? I know people who have a freaking masters degree, yet they’re stuck working in fast food. University is NOT a magical “fix-all” solution. That poor dude is paying off that schooling with a minimum wage job. There are only so many high paying jobs.

We’re expected to care about everyone else’s struggle but our own. We’re expected to just deal with it in silence. All for the sake of older generation’s egos? I think the fuck not. I fuck up all the time. If you do, you should own up to it. I’ll always respect someone who owns their mistakes WAY more than someone who just pushes the blame down.

Don’t lie to us and tell us that life is better than it’s ever been. If you truly believe life is fully affordable on these wages, donate everything you have to charity and start from scratch. No degree, work experience, nothing. If it’s so easy, do it. Just do it. Please, start all over again if it’s so easy. Show us. Let’s see how long you last, especially if you’re single.

Be angry at me, idk. I am not alone in feeling like this, by a long shot. This collective anger will just keep growing. You can’t just brash people into being happy. That’s a great way to get ignored.

Again, this is aimed towards the people who say those things. Awesome people are in every generation.

  • GardenVarietyAnxiety@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    edit-2
    3 months ago

    Another Elder Millennial here.

    I don’t blame Gen Z. My hope is in Gen Z. I know that’s a shitty burden to carry, but as others have said I’ll do what I can in the time I have.

    Don’t give up. Motivate others and keep motivated. There is absolutely power in numbers, we just have to stay positive.

    I kmow we’re in “Mitigation Mode” and it is gonna get shitty, but you will fully inherit this world at some point. Salvage what you can and let the boomers rot.

  • Pronell@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    edit-2
    3 months ago

    I’m almost 50 and I feel terribly sorry for absolutely anyone younger than me for what’s been done to the world.

    I do have a house… but will also probably never retire. I don’t envision a long life in part because of climate change and all the reactionary politics that have come with it. (I wanted to add that I’m not sorry to the alt-right kids but… did the world leave them better outlets?)

    It’s fucked. I didn’t break it and can’t afford to buy it.

    I hope the ants can do well in the inevitable war against the cockroaches.

    • Shampoo_Bottle@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      3 months ago

      I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I don’t think anyone should have to feel that way, to be honest.

      I’m sorry for making you feel that way today. This was intended to be aimed towards the people who do say those things about the younger generations. I’ll edit that in. Not everyone who is an older adult is bad, not by a long shot. Many of you are awesome.

      • Pronell@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        3 months ago

        Oh shit no, I’m not aiming anything back at you. I’m frustrated at the two prior generations, as are most people in the world.

        I’m pissed at the tax cuts for billionaires and their ability to warp our institutions to their interests.

        I don’t know how to stop, avert, even slow their efforts. I understand the helplessness you all feel but don’t have solutions either.

        Because there aren’t any. I couldn’t prescribe one nor detail half a dozen potential ones. Maybe I’ll be here to push one forward.

        Dunno.

  • ezmack@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    I don’t know where you’re at in your career but as an older millenial genx or boomers complaining about your work ethic is a joke dude. They ran these companies into the fucking ground lmao. When I was younger I kind of liked that office space ‘nothing matters’ affect but man, you do not want to work with/rely on those people at all.

    Was kinda nice seeing the shift to writing think pieces about zoomers after all the shit they talked about millennial over the years but they’ll move on. Just ignore it. But seriously watch these people at work they’re useless. My parents paid for college with a summer job; I worked 40+ hour weeks in high-school. There’s no comparison on work ethic here

  • Deceptichum@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    I’m a millennial and I don’t blame you one bit, or think any of that shit about you.

    It’s the same nonsense the media said about us, and those before us.

    I’ve never even met a person in real life that thinks or says the shit the media pushes, but I can imagine there’s a few out there.

    • mozz@mbin.grits.dev
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      3 months ago

      I came here to say this – I admire the younger generation. My generation just wanted good jobs, and past the age of about 25, forgot all about what happened to the world or anything like that.

      The “Occupy Wall Street” generation for the most part still had the option of good participation in the economy but quite a lot of them rejected the whole premise and got involved in productive protest, to the point they almost got a socialist elected president.

      Gen Z as far as I can tell is a lot more fucked than whatever came before them, and is staunchly refusing to play the game of flipping burgers and renting apartments for their whole life. Not like they have much choice but good on them for reacting accordingly, and fuck the haters

  • krashmo@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    I’ve never heard a millennial talk down about Gen Z in real life aside from a few cultural comments that every generation deals with. Stuff like “why are they so into anime?” The rest of what you’re talking about seems more like internet drama to me than widely held beliefs.

  • umbrella@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    to be fair the media seem to love creating this generational divide. we had our fair share and you will too.

    divide and conquer, i guess.

  • Spaghetti_Hitchens@kbin.social
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    Take (bizarre) comfort in the fact that all older generations have looked down on the younger generations. We have evidence of it in newspapers from the 1700s.

    The oldest will die soon. As will mine (whatever. I’m Gen X, okay?) Eventually your generation will be the oldest, looking down on the younger generations for being dumb and lazy.

    Don’t feel bad for being tired of the wheel that continually crushes us all.

    • ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      3 months ago

      It goes much further back than that. I believe there are old Roman texts where older people complain about the younger generations.

  • ArugulaZ@kbin.social
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    I mean, hey, that’s how Gen X was viewed. Lazy slackers with no faith in the system. You’re in good company.

  • Agent641@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    Don’t give up now, we need your strong, youthful bodies to hoist the blades on the guillotines.

    • jdf038@mander.xyz
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      3 months ago

      I mean I can try as an older millenial but if the Committee on Public Safety drug tests for workers comp injuries I might be SOL

          • mrcleanup@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            0
            ·
            2 months ago

            I’d encourage you to run or volunteer to be a part of your local bureaucracy but they all operate during regular business hours, so I’m afraid that’s mainly just available to retirees and the rich.

  • Ultragigagigantic@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    I’m heavily disappointed with a certain group of Millenials for following the exact same things that they’ve complained about for multiple years. You can’t complain about being judged as an entire generation while also complaining about another entire generation without being a hypocrite. Millions of people are usually not a single monolith, sorry to tell you. You are not an exception. No one is.

    It’s the 1% vs the working class, not generation vs generation.

    Although the 1% would sure love it if we divided ourselves in more easily managed groups

    • Croquette@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      3 months ago

      It is not just the 1%. I’ve heard many friends complaining that the younger generation ask for more and refuse to be given less like it is a bad thing.