• Phen@lemmy.eco.br
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      My mother in law has no problem with M/M but complains about lesbians (says it’s disgusting) - I then assumed homophobes are bothered more about gays of their own gender in general.

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        That’s fair, most people who are loudly anti-gay tend to be male. Mostly because the “loudly anti-gay” group tends to overlap significantly with the "anti-women- group.

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          A lot.of anti-gay males are afraid of being treated the way the cis guys treat women as just a sexual object.

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        I also see a lot of anti-lesbian stuff from women. Tbh, I see more of it in my own personal life than I do anti-gay men, but that’s just my experience, I don’t know if that’s also the reality (I imagine it varies by area/culture too).

        And yeah I agree with your theory that people seem more bothered about same-sex relations for their own sex.

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      “WE DON’T WANT ‘MEN’ IN THE WOMEN’S BATHROOM”

      And FTM transpeople? You’re cool with them using the men’s bathroom?

      “Eff te wat? What are you on about?”

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        The JK brand of transphobes don’t even believe they exist as they think trans = “men role-playing in order to abuse women”